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We should be talking about how ignorant and unaware this renowned spiritual leader is when it comes to women\u2019s equality.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Dalai Lama has continuously referred to his first encounter with a Paris editor when asked whether a female could succeed him as a Dalai Lama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In 1992, the then-Paris editor of Vogue Magazine invited the Dalai Lama to guest-edit the next edition.<\/p>\n\n\n\n She asked if a future Dalai Lama could be a woman, to which he responded, \u201cCertainly if that would be more helpful,\u201d adding that they should be more attractive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Since then, he has uttered this nonsense numerous times in interviews.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In 2007, he agreed that the next Dalai Lamai could be a woman, saying, \u201cIf a woman reveals herself as more useful, the lama could very well be reincarnated in this form.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Then in 2010, journalist Larry King asked him the same question. Dalai Lama responded it was \u201cvery possible\u2019\u201d that a female could replace him, citing that in Tibetan tradition, there are females in high positions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Then he leaned toward Larry King as if he was going to tell him a secret, \u201cIf female Dalai Lama comes, the female must be very, very attractive,\u201d to which Larry snickers. Dalai Lama adds, \u201cmore useful,\u201d to which both men giggle like bros talking at a water cooler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He didn\u2019t stop there. In 2015, a male reporter for BBC asked, \u201cIs there going to be a 15th reincarnation after you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dalai Lama said that it depends on the Tibetan people. The reporter then asks if it could be a woman, to which the Dalai Lama recounted the same incident in Paris.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He said that in today\u2019s troubled world, it would make sense to have women in more important roles because they have the biological capacity to show compassion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Then he grabbed the reporter\u2019s hand, leaned in, and said, \u201cThen I told that reporter if female Dalai Lama comes, the face must be very, very\u2026should be very attractive.\u201d They both broke out in laughter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The reporter asks, \u201cSo you can only have a female Dalai Lama if they\u2019re attractive?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dalai Lama repeats, \u201cIf a female Dalai Lama comes, then female must be attractive, otherwise, not much use.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n The reporter raises his eyebrows and says, \u201cYou\u2019re joking, I\u2019m assuming or you\u2019re not joking?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI mean\u2026true.\u201d Dalai Lama responds with a straight face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In the same year, a female BBC reporter asked the Dalai Lama to confirm his previous statement about women:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYou also told one of my colleagues that that female must be attractive otherwise, it\u2019s not much use. Can you see why that comment upset a lot of women?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Dalai Lama responded, \u201cIf female Dalai Lama comes, then should be more attractive. If female Dalai Lama (scrunches his face and snickers), then people, I think, prefer not to see that face.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Then he said women should \u201cspend money on makeup.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cA lot of women would say that\u2019s objectifying women. It\u2019s who you\u2019re on the inside, isnt\u2019 it?\u201d The reporter asks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI think both,\u201d he says. \u201cReal beauty is inner beauty, that\u2019s true, but I think appearance is also important.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n No matter how one dissects this, it\u2019s easy to see that the Dalai Lama sees that women are only useful if they can prove to be more useful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The more I watched his many interviews, the more it became clear that Dalai Lama is a product of a patriarchal religious organization. Women have made headway when it comes to flying into space, becoming world leaders, and have won every category of the Nobel Prize.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Yet religion is one area where women have not made much progress. In the world\u2019s major religions, women have been denied the right to serve in leadership positions and barred from ordination.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Some are forbidden from praying alongside men and stepping inside houses of worship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sexism in Buddhism is nothing new. Tibetan culture is quite patriarchal. Tibetan Buddhism doesn\u2019t allow women to achieve the same religious status as men. It denies them the highest-ranking ordination, called bhikkhuni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But the Dalai Lama has been widely credited for making Geshema degree \u2014 considered equivalent to a Ph.D. degree in Tibetan Buddhism \u2014 available to nuns for the first time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It involves four years of \u201cwritten and debate exams\u201d plus the \u201ccompletion and defense of a thesis.\u201d It\u2019s so rigorous that it takes 17 years of study to simply be eligible to take the Geshema exams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Why then would Dalai Lama keep repeating the same mistake and talking about women in this way? Doesn\u2019t he know that our ancestors have fought hard to have the same rights as men?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Is he so secluded in his own world that he cannot see that women globally would take offense to such comments, especially from a spiritual leader?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" We should be talking about…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":549,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-548","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-home"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dorje-shugden.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/548","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dorje-shugden.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dorje-shugden.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dorje-shugden.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dorje-shugden.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=548"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.dorje-shugden.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/548\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":550,"href":"https:\/\/www.dorje-shugden.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/548\/revisions\/550"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dorje-shugden.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/549"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dorje-shugden.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=548"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dorje-shugden.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=548"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dorje-shugden.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=548"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}